Scarlett, she sneered, couldn’t read. Her Payless and Gap shoes weren’t good enough. She wasn’t “allowed” to play with certain girls. Lila was forming a band, and Scarlett couldn’t be a part. One girl threatened to physically hurt her. During recess, Lila would loom over Scarlett, arms crossed, and say, “I’m watching you."Lila harrassed Scarlett because she didn't have shoes that were of the right brand. While to adults and older children this may seem like a petty elementary school argument, this same type of bullying that is tied to class and poverty continues into middle school and high school. Not having the best cell phone or iPod can lead to nastiness and teasing from other children. Not dressing in the best clothes or being well-put together can also lead to teasing or bully.
-The Playground Gets Even Tougher (2010)
The question is, as educators, how do we mitigate this teasing and bullying in the classroom? I believe it is best to treat students as equals. Don't place a higher value on certain students. Foster tolerance, respect, and understanding. Practice what you teach, and never underestimate the value of promoting positive behavior.
As an educator, you stop the teasing & bullying the moment you see it. If it is allowed to continue, the educator is as guilty as the bully.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree, if you do not stop it immediately you are in essence saying that the behavior is okay.
ReplyDeleteyeah as a future educator bullying isn't acceptable and has to be stopped when it happens or it's going to continue and get worse until it gets out of hand
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